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Minutes: Monday 1 May 2017 @ Lithgow Library Learning Centre Venue: Lithgow Library 157 Main St, Lithgow

Chair: Sandra Hemming (Canterbury Bankstown) Minutes: Sally Meakin (Canterbury Bankstown)

Attendees: Sandra Hemming, Sally Meakin – Canterbury Bankstown, Natalie Conn, Melinda Short – Bathurst, Georgia Lewsley – Blue Mountains, Susan Bradley-Hoy – Burwood, Annette Chaplin – Camden, Bernadette Stephenson, Robert Swan – Campbelltown, Kylie Streeter – Canada Bay, Mary Ryder – Hornsby, Alison Kim – Lithgow, Fiona Dunn – Macquarie Regional (Dubbo), Fiona– Midwestern, Julie- Anne Jones & Caryl Collins – Penrith, Anne Chestnut – Ryde, Laurie Popple – Wollongong

Apologies: Greg Roberts – Canterbury Bankstown, Samantha Hamilton – City of Sydney, Helen Jack & Kayo Magill – Hornsby, Alina Brulinski & Sonia Campion – Ku-Ring-Gai, Marian Gray – Manly, Julieri De Florio – Northern Beaches, Michelle Drummond – Bayside, Sherryl Charley – Singleton, Oriana Acevedo & Mylee Joseph – SLNSW, Sarah Murray & Susan Hyde – Willoughby

Confirmation of the Minutes of the Previous Meeting

Dated 6 February 2017 (Willoughby) Mary Ryder (Hornsby) Laurie Popple

Welcome- Terry OKeefe (Lithgow Library Co-ordinator)

Overview Lithgow HLS – Alison Kim (Outreach Services Officer)

Guest Speaker – Jack Goldberg (social worker – NSW Health)

Subject: Dealing with Death and Dying.

  1. Denial - The first reaction is denial. In this stage individuals believe the diagnosis is somehow mistaken
  2. Anger - When the individual recognizes that denial cannot continue, they become frustrated, especially with those around them. Certain psychological responses of a person undergoing this phase would be: "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?"; "Who is to blame?"; "Why would this happen?".
  3. Bargaining - The third stage involves the hope that the individual can avoid a cause of grief. Usually, the negotiation for an extended life is made in exchange for a reformed lifestyle. People facing less serious trauma can bargain or seek compromise. For instance: "I'd give anything to have him back." Or: "If only he'd come back to life, I'd promise to be a better person!"
  4. Depression - "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"; "I'm going to die soon, so what's the point?"; "I miss my loved one, why go on?" During the fourth stage, the individual despairs at the recognition of their mortality. In this state, the individual may become silent, refuse visitors and spend much of the time mournful and sullen.
  5. Acceptance - "It's going to be okay."; "I can't fight it; I may as well prepare for it." In this last stage, individuals embrace mortality or inevitable future, or that of a loved one, or other tragic event. People dying may precede the survivors in this state, which typically comes with a calm, retrospective view for the individual, and a stable condition of emotions.

So how do we deal with our feelings when working with clients and their issues?

Other relevant organisations for referral include the following:

Staff who do not feel confident to talk to their supervisor , manager or colleagues should consider utilising the EAP (employment assistance program) counselling services

A general discussion followed the talk, identifying the issues staff face when dealing with aging clients and clients with disabilities. Some of these issues included the following:

There were various reasons raised as to why clients are distressed, some of these included the following:

All staff present at the meeting agreed that dealing with angry clients, clients who are developing or demonstrating mental health issues, those who are depressed, emotional (ie in tears) etc places pressure on HLS staff and that can take its toll if staff don’t talk about what they have been dealing with.

Sally Meakin (Canterbury Bankstown) suggested that she would be happy to listen and talk to other HLS staff experiencing difficulties dealing with client problems. HLS staff are the best people to provide support to one another because they have firsthand experience.

BREAK FOR MORNING TEA

Mature Matrix Library Services for Seniors – Susan Bradley-Hoy (Burwood)

See attached presentation

Promotion and Programming

Due to time constraints the remaining agenda items were combined and priority items were discussed

Amalgamations- discussion postponed with many outcomes still pending.

General Business

CLOSE OF MEETING 1pm followed by a tour of Lithgow Library.

NEXT MEETING: 7th AUGUST, BANKSTOWN LIBRARY 10am-1pm